family stands by you no matter what kinda sh!t it is. the hate you feel hit the weights or spare or whatever you quadruple million centurion black belts do and then fvck your girl silly. if you made it this far in life without them, then you don't need them. Invite that in your life you are inviting trouble for you and your lovies. don't let this shit get to your head. if that's their reaction block them from your mind. you are your own man. forgiveness? fuck that. they suck.