fuck em man. take a special kind of piece of trash to cast off their own children for starters. that is probably the lowest of low. i can see giving up a child for adoption if your cant take care of them or if you straight up dont want to have children. that way at least they will be taken care of and maybe have a family that will love and treat them as their own.

the trade off is you need some indication of medical conditions and other health stuff from your actual family. that's always a good thing to know and have access to. i hate to hear that you are going through that stuff man. that's brutal and a hard pill to swallow but at least you have a real family that cares about you and you are a part of. keep your head up and just roll along like you never knew them any way