Originally Posted by BABY1 good stuff “If we make the conscious decision to daily place our spouse’s desires and needs above our own, and that’s reciprocated, the marriage will succeed. Utter and complete selflessness. Isn’t this true in all healthy relationships?” My advice after a divorce following my marriage, by Brad Pitt. Obviously, I’m not a relationship expert. I would have done differently… After losing a woman that I loved, here’s the advice I wish I would have had: ...